DEAR READER: Opposites do attract. Differences can draw us like a magnet to the other person. These same differences, however, may repel us later on. What initially attracts us and what later becomes "the problem" are usually one and the same. How does this work? If John feels a bit allergic to the high degree of togetherness and emotionality in his Italian-American family, he may be especially drawn to a woman like you, who models …showed first 75 words of 369 total…

…showed last 75 words of 369 total…differences (or exaggerate them, for that matter) or whenever we assume that our view of reality—or our way of being in the world—is the only correct one. Respecting differences is the greatest and most difficult of all human challenges DEAR HARRIET: My sexist husband and I have different views about rearing our son, who is 4 years old. I want my son to be able to cry and express his feminine Bibliography Italian-American family